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	<title>Pastor Me &#187; regret</title>
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		<title>Used Cares</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 23:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Author Lucretia Hanson noticed a mistake in a caption she was proofreading. Instead of &#8220;Used Cars&#8221; it read, &#8220;Used Cares.&#8221; Hanson wrote, &#8220;It made me stop short and reflect on how many of our cares are used ones, dredged up from past memories.&#8221;
There are the cares of self-pity: the long illness we had, or the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Author Lucretia Hanson noticed a mistake in a caption she was proofreading. Instead of &#8220;Used Cars&#8221; it read, &#8220;Used Cares.&#8221; Hanson wrote, &#8220;It made me stop short and reflect on how many of our cares are used ones, dredged up from past memories.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>There are the cares of self-pity:</strong> the long illness we had, or the unreasonable way people treated us on a certain occasion . . .</p>
<p><strong>Then there are the used cares of regrets.</strong> If I had only gone on to school or been more careful in the selection of my life mate.</p>
<p><strong>And, of the unavoidable cares.</strong> The accident for which we were not to blame, the germ that laid us low and left a trail of pain for years, the physical weakness we cannot remedy, the separation from loved ones that grieves us and the refusal of someone to forgive us for a hasty word or action. We have used these cares so long that they have depressed us and left us powerless.</p>
<p>&#8220;Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.&#8221; (1 Peter 5:6-7 KJV)</p>
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		<title>Anger Regretted</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 07:50:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have heard that if a rattlesnake is cornered, it can become so frenzied that it will accidentally bite itself with its deadly fangs. In the same way, when a person harbors resentment and hatred in his heart, he is often hurt by the poison of his own malice. He thinks he is injuring his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have heard that if a rattlesnake is cornered, it can become so frenzied that it will accidentally bite itself with its deadly fangs. In the same way, when a person harbors resentment and hatred in his heart, he is often hurt by the poison of his own malice. He thinks he is injuring his enemies by displaying his wrath, but the real harm is inflicted deep within his own soul. Anger can also cause us to do and say things we may deeply regret. George W. Martin tells the following true story:</p>
<p>&#8220;I remember a fellow who once wrote a nasty letter to his father. Since we worked in the same office, I advised him not to send it because it was written in a fit of temper. But he sealed it and asked me to put it in the mail. Instead, I simply slipped it into my pocket and kept it until the next day. The following morning he arrived at the office looking very worried.</p>
<p>&#8216;George,&#8217; he said, &#8216;I wish I had never sent that note to my dad yesterday. It hurts me deeply, and I know it will break his heart when he reads it. I&#8217;d give 50 dollars to get it back!&#8217; Taking the envelope from my pocket, I handed it to him and told him what I had done. He was so overjoyed that he actually wanted to pay me the 50 dollars!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;<span style="color: #ff0000;">But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.</span>&#8221; (Matthew 5:22 KJV)</p>
<p>&#8220;Raca&#8221; is an Aramaic transliteration for &#8220;reka,&#8221; a term expressing contempt, scorn, or disdain. The Greek word &#8220;rhaka&#8221; means empty, vain or worthless one, signifying a lack of intellect (i.e. Imbecile or blockhead). It is only found in Matt. 5:22. The Jews used it as a word of contempt. It is derived from a root meaning, &#8220;to spit.&#8221;</p>
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